Callers' Corner:
We would like to start this article by saying how much we enjoy all
of our Square Dance Friends that we have in the Northwest District, we are
very bless with your friendship.
Also again it is an honor that you let us know about reading these
articles.
This month we want to discuss a subject that we have heard over and
over again, that being how our hobby of Square Dancing is not what it used
to be and that it is really going down hill.
We know and understand the feelings of where this is coming from,
because in some areas there is a reduction in both club members and new
dancers. This seems to give the active membership a very negative attitude
toward way to change this. They only bring up how it used to be as being
the positive and how it is now as the negative. The talk is how we used to
fill the halls and how we used to have big groups of new dancers taking
lessons. Then the discussion turns to now and the remarks are very
negative because they feel that everyone they know either, have dropped
out of Square Dancing, or the people they know are too old to begin
learning to Square Dance. So they have only negative ideas of way of
changing what is happening.
So what would happen if instead of looking at the problem negative
we turned around and tried a positive approach? Instead talk about ways
that we can contact those members that are still healthy and approach them
as to how really missed they are at the dances. Let them know they are
being missed, get the current club members involved in calling these
individuals, so that the ones that are being contacted, are being
contacted by more that one member of the club. We know that just doing
this much will let those past healthy members that quit coming know how
much they are being missed.
Second, get all the active club members together and positive brain
storm as to locations that may be available in the clubs community, where
the possibility of new dancers might be. Don't, repeat don't, make
negative excuses for ideas, such as we've tried that or we've done that,
and it didn't work. Take all suggestions as being positive and accept them
as they will work. Then as a group decide on the direction everyone is in
agreement to proceed, which we hope that will be in a positive direction.
Then work out a program and get everyone involved in completing the
program, don't leave anyone out.
In closing this article on a positive note we know that some clubs
are growing and are continuing to be active both in existing membership
and in lesson participation.
Again they are doing this with a positive attitude and not a negative one.
The bottom line of the whole situation is not accentuating the positive.
Sincerely
Cecil & Barbara Burton